Straight-forward headless, X-less rendering with EGL + nvidia GPU + ParaView v5.8.1

ParaView Support
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Yes, you should use the nvidia proprietary drivers.
Take a look at:
https://kitware.github.io/paraview-docs/latest/cxx/Offscreen.html

The ParaView Builds section gives you more information about the variables you need to set.